Dating Tips
 Reading and using the following tips will make all the difference to your success in finding your ideal partner, please read them carefully.
Be truthful when writing your profile. You will get nowhere by being dishonest and will ruin your changes of forming a relationship. More than any other thing relationships are built on trust and respect. You're not doing yourself any favours if you cannot demonstrate either.
It might be worth writing your profile out a few times so that it sounds right. You want to make sure you have portrayed yourself well and that you sound interesting. Run it by friends and ask them for comments. They often recognise attributes you possess that you might not have acknowledged yourself. If at anytime you want to change what you have written about yourself or change a photograph, click on 'Edit Profile' in your members account. But please remember, your profile will be deactivated temporarily until the changes have been made.
It's much nicer to see a photograph of the person you are reading about rather than a silhouette. Remember our site can only be viewed by other members and not just by anyone surfing the web unless they join up too. This allows you extra privacy. By viewing profiles accompanied by photographs you are much more likely to want to make contact. For more information on how to produce a good photograph please refer to our photograph tips section.
Read each persons profile carefully. Revisit if necessary. Don't make a snap decision if it is one thing that puts you off, there maybe many more fascinating things about this person if you only read on.
If you like someone, there is no point in waiting around and hoping that they may feel the same way - why not take the plunge and send a message. You are not committing yourself to anything and by showing this initiative you will sound intriguing.
Take time to get to know the person you are corresponding with. There are going to be a lot of things you are going to want to know about them and this is the best place to find out before agreeing to meet up.
Use the Smwchometer to show at a glance those people who have the same interests as you. It's fun! - and can be a great talking point. Use the fact that you now know something's about this person to discover even more. Remember this and the profile is just giving you a brief introduction to get to know each other. Communication is the key.
The conversations that you have online are TOTALLY confidential. Administration at Smwch has NO access to your conversations and cannot view or record any details whatsoever. Therefore, if you have any concerns as to the content of the messages you are receiving then contact us immediately. You can also use the BLOCK USER in your member account details to block any unwanted messages. | |
